Want to strengthen your family and give your tween the tools for life BEYOND middle school?

Join 'Ditch The Drama' course today!"

Discover new things together with my parent/tween course because healthy relationships start at home.

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Enroll in the course today.

  

 

Learn to manage emotions, communicate, and set boundaries TOGETHER.

 

Solid relationship, tween ready for high school—socially, emotionally, and mentally. Let's do this!

Parents are overwhelmed.

Without a trusted resource to guide you, you may be:
  • Challenged to build self-respect and confidence.
  • Struggling with popularity, mean girls, confidence, body image, and social media.
  • Balancing "kids will be kids" with empowering tweens in a dramatic world.
  • Navigating the importance of good friends and good choices.
  • Saved countless parent posts, never finding solutions.
  • Confused about the "shoulds" of parents but feeling defeated.
  • Tried "parent gurus," but see no significant changes.
  • Overwhelmed by the thought of misunderstood "puberty."
  • Recognizing a great kid but knowing they need to grow and learn.

Say Goodbye to Overwhelm and Hello To Growth: For You and Your Tween

With 'Ditch The Drama' discover new things about yourselves because healthy relationships start at home.

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The transformative solution for parents and tweens!

✨ Engaging Videos:  Thirteen short 3-minute videos building crucial life skills.

🌟Step-by-Step Progress: Focus on one skill per lesson at your own pace.

⏰ 15 Minutes a Week: Yes, 15 focused minutes a week.

FREE Ebook: Beyond The One Word Answer: A Parent Guide To Asking Powerful Questions

🌟 Build foundational skills including:

  1. Intro To Middle School
  2. Know Your Value
  3. Own Your Emotions
  4. Regulate Your Emotions
  5. Use Logic with Emotions
  6. Being a Good Friend
  7. Set Boundaries
  8. Communication 
  9. Conflict vs. Bullying
  10. Stand Up To The Bully
  11. Fitting In and Belonging
  12. Two Kinds of Popular
  13. The Triangle of Drama

Family Challenges for practice and growth.

Say Goodbye to Overwhelm and Hello To Growth: For You and Your Tween

With 'Ditch The Drama' discover new things about yourselves because healthy relationships start at home.

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Step 1

Enroll in the Course

Even with rolled eyes, you get an opportunity to teach in the calm. I start the convo, the two of you complete it.

Step 2

Discover skills together

Learn at your own pace and practice together. You both have a common goal as a team.

 

Step 3

Renewed Bond w/ Tween

Enjoy the results of your hardwork with a relationship built on communication and understanding.

Say Goodbye to Overwhelm and Hello To Growth: For You and Your Tween

With 'Ditch The Drama' discover new things about yourselves because healthy relationships start at home.

Enroll Now

Jen

 This was a part of our date day. I approached it like Nik said, "Let's learn together."  Our communication is much better. 

Ashley, Mom of an 11 year-old 

I have stopped judging myself and daughter so much. It  helps you in such a personal way. 

 

Eve, Mom of 12 year-old

We took the challenges and made them our own. I  needed as much help as my child.

 

A Course That Grows Your Family

Let's see what you get.

 

 

Know Your Value

Dive into knowing who you are and what you are about by defining your value as a parent and tween. When they are unsure of themselves and questioning everything, you can point them to this. Plus, my free Ebook that will help you ask instead of lecture.

 

 

 

How Long Do These Emotions Last?

You will not say, "calm down," because in this lesson, you both discover how long strong emotions last. I do not tell you, you learn it in the Family Challenge. (I also play characters.)

 

 

How To Set Boundaries

You and your tween learn how to do this with a special guide for you AS A PARENT. You learn how to set them, respect them, and hold them.

 

 

 

 

Learn To Stand Up To The Bully

I approach this differently than most people. Once you learn to be more assertive,  we practice taking your power back with one sentence.

 

 

Say Goodbye to Overwhelm and Hello To Growth: For You and Your Tween

With 'Ditch The Drama' discover new things about yourselves because healthy relationships start at home.

Enroll Now

 

Imagine this...

Your 9th grader is doing great in high school because they can express themselves, trust their instincts, and learning to have good relationships. Your parenting journey and investment are showing in their growth as they become awesome individuals. You have built a foundation of connection, communication, collaboration, and consistency. 

 

Nik Bowers, M.Ed.

Meet Nik: an author, speaker, and educator on a mission to empower parents and their tweens with invaluable life tools. With decades of experience guiding students from preschool to college, Nik has spent her entire career developing kids and adults.

As a visionary principal, Nik pioneered a groundbreaking middle school program that prioritized values-based education, mentoring, and tailored support groups. Behind closed doors, Nik collaborated with parents, fostering understanding, communication, and deeper connections with their children.

Middle school is an amazing opportunity to instill a strong foundation of problem-solving skills, emotional intelligence, and independence for success in high school and beyond.

Say Goodbye to Overwhelm and Hello To Growth: For You and Your Tween

With 'Ditch The Drama' discover new things about yourselves because healthy relationships start at home.

Enroll Now

Let's Make This More Personal

Take your journey to the next level with my comprehensive Premium Package!

In addition to the essential skills offered in the Basic Package, you'll receive exclusive access to:

  1. Six 1:1 Parent Coaching Sessions: Receive personalized guidance tailored to your specific needs. (Original $150/hour)

  2. Parent Assessment: This gives you insight to your strengths as a parent and areas where you can grow.
  3. Private Facebook Group: Join a supportive community of like-minded parents and individuals committed to fostering middle school success. 
  4. Access to Nik from 8 am - 4 pm M-F.
  5. Four Friendship Classes For Your Tween w/ Nik: Behaviors of a GREAT Friend, Communication Skills of a GREAT Friend, Standing Up For Yourself, Conflict Resolution ($200)
  6. 5 Parent Workshops: Academics, Body Image, Anger/Anxiety, Problem-Solving Discipline, Screens (Open to Public at $55 per workshop)

 

Limited-Time Offer: Secure your Premium Package now to access this exclusive blend of essential skills, community support, and personalized coaching. Elevate your middle school experience today!

SIX Coaching Sessions + Course will be available for a limited time at this price.

Option 1: Basic Package: COURSE ONLY Original Price $229

NOW $127

COURSE ONLY

  • Unlimited time
  • 13 Engaging Videos and Lessons
  • Step-by-step progress
  • 15 minutes a week
  • EBook: Beyond The One Word Answer
  • Downloads with each lesson
  • Family Challenge for each lesson to practice at your pace
  • Work at your own pace
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Option 2: Pro Coaching Package Original Price $1,079

NOW $439

ALL BASIC PACKAGE FEATURES, PLUS:

  • 12 weeks
  • Three 1:1 Parent Coaching Sessions with Nik

  • Parent Assessment
  • Private Facebook Group w/Nik teaching or coaching once a week.
  • Access to Nik from 8 am - 4 pm M-F.

  • Four Friendship Classes For Your Tween w/ Nik
  • Work at your own pace
  • 5 Free Parent Workshops 
  • LIMITED SPOTS and LIMITED TIME OFFER
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Option 3: Premium Coaching Package Original Price $1,553

$749

ALL BASIC PACKAGE FEATURES, PLUS:

  • 12 weeks
  • Six 1:1 Parent Coaching Sessions with Nik

  • Parent Assessment
  • Private Facebook Group w/Nik teaching and coaching once a week
  • Access to Nik from 8 am - 4 pm M-F.

  • Four Friendship Classes For Your Tween w/ Nik 
  • Work at your own pace
  • 5 Free Parent Workshops 
  • LIMITED SPOTS and LIMITED TIME OFFER
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

  1. Q: Why should I invest in the parent/tween course?

    • A: Invest in your child's future. This course builds a strong foundation for effective parenting and understanding your growing tween.
  2. Q: Is it really worth my time?

    • A: Absolutely! In just 15 minutes, gain valuable insights that will make a lasting impact on your parenting journey and your tween's emotional development.
  3. Q: What if my child doesn't want to participate?

    • A: It's common for tweens to resist new things. The course is designed with engaging and relatable content, making learning enjoyable. If resistance persists, communicate openly to foster collaboration and do it as a "we" activity and make it a date. One parent/tween make it a date every other week.
  4. Q: Why spend money on this course when there are free resources available?

    • A: This investment is in your child's foundational development. We often spend on sports or extracurriculars; this is an investment in essential parenting tools that will be the base for future growth.
  5. Q: Can't I learn these parenting skills on my own without a course?

    • A: While there are resources available, this course provides a structured and practical approach, saving you time and ensuring effective learning for both you and your tween.
  6. Q: How is this course different from others I've tried?

    • A: Our course offers a unique, practical approach tailored for specific tween challenges. It's not just about learning; it's about growing together as a parent and a tween.
  7. Q: What if I have limited funds for parenting resources?

    • A: Consider this an investment in your child's well-being. I understand financial constraints, but this course lays a crucial foundation for your tween's future success, making it a valuable use of resources.