Parenting Is Leadership. And right now is when she needs yours the most.
A membership designed for moms raising tween girls — and for tween girls becoming leaders.
Middle school is heavier, louder, and more confusing than ever.
You don’t need perfection, you need a plan.
This membership gives you the tools to lead with confidence
and gives her the skills to lead herself.
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You get coaching. She gets coaching. You grow together.
A simple, powerful system that strengthens her confidence, your leadership, and your relationship — without adding more stress to your life.
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Amber-— Mom of 5th grader
“My fifth grader and I joined in September and the transformation for us both has been inspiring. She is standing up for herself and has a soft place to land on the girls calls. I love my calls but listening to Nik with the girls is amazing. It is so worth the time.”
What is included:
For Moms
- Live coaching every other week
- Leadership tools that create calm and connection
- Workshops on emotions, respect, boundaries, and friendships
- Middle School Survival Guide (parent-tween course)
- Supportive community of moms
For Tween Girls
- Live coaching every other week
- A safe space to grow confidence and resilience
- Friendship + communication tools
- Emotional regulation strategies
- If she misses a call: Short “catch-up” videos (under 5 minutes) so she never falls behind — easy to watch together or on the go
For Both
- Parent–Tween connection activities
- Shared language + tools
- A stronger relationship during the years she needs it most
Girls Call Schedule:
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1st and 3rd Wednesday of each month...separated into Grades 4-6 & Grades 7-9
Mom Coaching Call Schedule:
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2nd and 4th Wednesday of each month
She’s not just getting advice. She’s getting practice — and leadership skills that stick.
A membership that teaches moms to lead well and teaches tween girls to lead themselves — together.
Tween problems are missing-skills problems.
And just like a good coach wouldn’t yell, “Shoot! Score!” without teaching the steps…
You and your daughter both need the skills broken down, practiced, and made manageable.
Middle school brings big emotions, shifting friendships, and real pressure.
She’s trying to make sense of her world — and you’re trying to lead her through it.
This isn’t about fixing her.
It’s about giving both of you the tools, language, and simple reps you need so the hard moments don’t feel so overwhelming.
She practices her skills.
You practice yours.
And the relationship gets stronger every time you do.
Jen, Mom of 6th Grader
“My daughter has said repeatedly, ‘Thank you for signing me up for this.’ Her confidence and my confidence have grown so much in four months. And I know we can thrive through this.”
You And Your Daughter's Success Path
Know Your Values
Your family thrives when everyone knows what they stand for. And your daughter? She needs to define who she is from the inside out. When she’s clear on her values, she’ll walk with confidence, set strong boundaries, and lead herself—no matter what middle school throws her way.
Manage Your Emotions
Mastering emotions is the key to calmer conversations and fewer blow-ups. Learn to name, communicate, and process emotions—together with your daughter—so frustration doesn’t turn into fights. We’ll guide you both every step of the way.
Use Logic For Good Choices (Yours and Hers)
Most parenting advice focuses on rules—but what about reasoning? When you and your daughter learn to use logic for better choices, you stop reacting and start leading. This missing piece helps her think critically, make confident decisions, and navigate life with independence.
This is not more to do — this is support for how you already live.
Short calls.
Short videos.
Short challenges.
Big transformation.
This membership fits your real life — and makes the hard moments easier, not heavier.
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Nina, Mom of 7th grader
“We are so glad we did this. It is an investment that is worth growing closer — and Nik is even better in person. My daughter is successfully using her boundaries with friends and it has been transformational.”
This isn’t therapy. This isn’t just a parenting course.
Therapy is incredibly valuable—it helps process trauma and heal deep struggles. I fully support it.
Therapy helps you heal.
This membership helps you lead.
Therapy meets twice a month.
Middle school happens daily.
This membership is built for the real-time in-between moments — the ones no one tells you how to handle.
“My daughter just got excluded from a sleepover. What do I say?”
“She told me I’m ruining her life again — how do I respond without losing my mind?”
“Her best friend just iced her out. How do I help her process this?”
You don’t need to Google or guess anymore.
You have me in your pocket.
You will have a plan.
You will have support, finally.
“Life doesn’t slow down for parenting. That’s why this membership fits into your life on your terms. Together we can build the help and foundation you and your tween needs to thrive when stakes are low, so high school becomes a time of practice.
~Nik Bowers, M. Ed.
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Dana, Mom of Two Girls
“I didn’t realize how much my daughter could be taught to do things for herself, including thinking, and how much confidence that gives her. I am behind, but Nik helps you where you are and we have grown so much already.”
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my tween doesn't want to do it?
How will course materials be delivered?
Are replays available for moms?
How quickly can I expect results?
Do you offer a money-back guarantee?
What if my daughter misses a call?
How might your relationship with your tween improve if you understood their experiences and learned how to help them become independent?
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