The Puberty Shift (Grades 4–6): What’s Changing and What to Do Next
A LIVE class for moms ... because puberty isn't just acne and periods.
with Nik Bowers, M. Ed.
Tuesday, January 20th @ 8PM EST | $27 | Replay Included
Your 4th–6th Grader Isn’t the Same Kid Anymore
You can feel the change, but you don’t know what to do with it yet.
You’re watching the mood swings.
The pushback.
Emotions seem bigger than the situation.
And somewhere in the back of your mind, you’re thinking:
“Am I making this worse?”
“What if I damage our relationship?”
“Do we need therapy… or do we just need better tools?”
Every single mom feels this way.
This is the moment where many moms quietly panic and freeze.
Grab your seat in the LIVE class. Replay sent to registered moms.
Fourth through sixth grade is where puberty begins inside, and this is where we MUST be proactive.
The changes are sneaky AND sudden. This makes parenting suddenly feel harder and more personal.
Moms need clarity.
This season isn’t about fixing a problem. It’s about learning a new skill set for parents AND girls.
The Four Shifts You’ll Learn in This Live Class
The Brain Shift
Emotions get louder before logic catches up.
I am teaching you how to help you both pause and not escalate.
Emotions & Logic
Big feelings without the skills to manage or explain them, I am giving you both the skills she needs.
The Identity & Social Shift
Friendships, belonging, and comparison start shaping how she sees herself and how sensitive everything feels. I am giving you the skills to help her learn through this.
The Mom–Daughter Shift
This is the first of 5 critical shifts in a mom-daughter relationship. Let's do this first shift well.
This is usually where moms don’t know what to do next... I am teaching the HOW.
Reactive vs. Proactive Parenting
Reactive parenting waits for problems.
Proactive parenting builds skills before they become problems.
Most of us start reactive.
Not because we don’t care, but because no one showed us what to do before it got hard.
The parents who change outcomes decide to stop there.
Some moms join early.
“I don’t want middle school to break our relationship.”
They’re playing the long game.
Others arrive exhausted. After years of reacting and repairing.
They’re not behind. They’re ready to do it differently.
The problem? Moms don’t know what to focus on.
What moms tell me matters most...
Erin, Mom of 5th Grader
“We were in a really tricky spot in 4th grade, and I was honestly scared for our relationship. I thought about therapy, but what I really wanted was tools. Just skills for both of us. And that changed everything.”
Nat, Mom of 5th and 7th Graders
“I realized we didn’t need more ‘why.’ Nik talks about skills, but I really did not know what that meant. Nik gives you the practical how that most of us are missing.”
Jen, Mom of 6th grader
“Working with Nik for four months did more for our relationship than years of play therapy and traditional therapy combined. I finally had the skills and my daughter and I are closer, calmer, and more connected than we’ve ever been.”
The New Tween Shift (Grades 4–6): What’s Changing and What to Do Next
$27
Inside this live class, you’ll:
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Be proactive.
Seats are limited and it is January 20th at 8 pm EST, Recording will be yours.
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